Friday, 14 April 2017

11 tips and tricks to overcome public speaking trauma

Has a young boy to speak in a congregation are one of my challenges as a person, I prefer to avoid it all cost, than to speak in public.

Whenever I heard public speaking fear gripped my heart, As if I Am about to face lion in the Lion's den 

I remember my High schools days, when I was told to speak in a debate, that day was an awful experiences,  Those excessive sweating, unable to breathe smoothly, anxious, shivering, stammering, i won’t tell myself that I fumbled that day, I see it has a challenges

Many people out there are going through these same problem, even adult, old man, business man, great people experience and faced these challenges in day by day activities.

More than average people avoid to speak in public. 

Why is it hard to speak in front of people, it baffles me yet, we still experience these public

Wednesday, 29 March 2017

25 Quotes by Dale Carnegie to inspire you

25 Quotes by Dale carnegie to inspire you

Wow! One of the most 100 influential men In America, Dale Carnegie; he has helped many people to achieve the life they have dream of, his word have heal many soul and bring hope to them.

i really love his story, "how he stayed on the farm and commuted on horseback three miles to college each day. At home, he milked the cows, cut the wood, feed the hogs, and studied his Latin verbs by the light of a coal-oil until his eyes blurred and he began to nod". but he never give up is

12 things to avoid daily to live a healthy life

12 things to avoid daily to live a happy life

Healthy lifestyle are important and are not negotiable, but for us to live an enthusiast and complete life. There are certain things we ought to neglect, forsake and flew away from. 

It's not optional but a must to let go of things that doesn't add to us but takes away our precious gift, joy and happiness from us and leave us empty afterward.

No matter how much we cherish or they seems important to us; if letting go is what would make us to

Friday, 24 March 2017

10 reasons everyone must be a public speaker

10 reasons everyone must be a public speaker

Since the day we are born, we have encountered many ups and downs, we have experienced many rejections, pain, challenges, loneliness, frustrations, gathered many experiences, and many other emotional circumstances, that in sometimes we want to take away our breathe and have created an experienced in our life i.e, when we get mocked by our peer group,  make silly mistakes that we latter learn in a hard way.

Things we have seen, heard, experienced are like a flash in our memory, it pops up in our mind sometimes when we are in a depressed mood, or going through life challenges, that we wish to share them to our close friend, family, relatives, neighbor, peer group, and loved

6 ways to let go of the past and focus more on now.

Let go of the past, let go of the painful memories. Don’t miss your chance today of creating beautiful memories for

Grown up in an area, family or environment where we are to follow a set norm, whether it's right for us or not, where those child hood experiences has made us to form an illusion about the world, that has made us to see the bad side of things.
It has made us not to see how precious we're, if a Gold does not know it's worth, it would be bought far! Far below it worth. It would be sold for a penny.

Placing people's thought to be priority to ours, making us to feel guilty of letting people know that we deserve

Saturday, 18 March 2017

7 ways to develop your public speaking skills

7 ways to develop your public speaking skills

"Communication is a skill that you can learn. it's like riding a bicycle or typing. If you're willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of every part of your life. " 
By: Brian Tracy 

Are you a public speaker, teacher or any other professions, in everything we do, we speak to people either rarely or often, but in most times what we say doesn’t matter but it’s the way we said them through our expertise. 

"It's not what we say but how we say it that matters."

When we learn to speak effectively to people, it makes us to have friends, win more customer, sale more product, our word become a source of

Thursday, 16 March 2017

Never Give up: 6 Reasons you should keep on fighting

never give up: 6 reasons you should keep on fighting

When fate hands you a lemon, make a lemonade.
        By: Dale Carnegie

When the battle of life is so much; will you quit the battle without been a triumphant? When it seems their is no more strenght; won't you endure more to the end? When hope is lost; Should we give up? When the faith is shaking; can we make it stand again? It's our mindset either positive or negative,  that would determine whether these storm are going to blow us away or make us stand firm till the end.

Circumstances before us might make life harder, and seems there won't be an end to them. Hoping that when would there be an illumination to these mystries of life.
The strength are gone, the hope are lost and yet we have to live. Never, NEver and Never give up. fight till the